He’s the one…
Let’s talk about Love…
How do you know if someone is “The one”
I can only tell you from my own experience how I knew my Husband was the one for me.
I knew my Husband was the one the day I met him, after all I did create (manifested) him, so he felt very familiar (this is a whole other blog, that il share one day).
I was dating and I said “God give me a clear sign when I meet the one” so when I met my Husband he had a halo over his head, I know it sounds weird but I usual see things that others can't. If you’ve been following my journey, then you know IYKYK…
I knew that very day I would marry him and I'm not really the marrying type. I wasn’t the little girl dreaming about marriage, honestly I just wanted safety and security growing up.
I wasn’t going to just go off that vision and that one day, as time went by I was also paying attention to his hobbies, how he talked to me and treated me, all these things mattered to me.
He was very commutative and he was very kind. My favorite thing to do is have dinner, drinks and great conservations and he never failed to share those moments with me. When he messaged me, it was through video and I think he did that so I would never question where he was or what he was doing. Im not the type to question that anyways but it was nice that he considered that.
His love language is gifting and mines is receiving lol (give me a break, I'm being honest).
Every time I would look around he had something for me, heels, purses, perfume or some kind of nice gesture. I was floored!
Who gave this men up and why…
God gave me three beautiful little girls (I’m obsessed with my girls) but being honest I’m a boys girl, I always hung out with the boys and I'm a big daddies girl, so naturally I thought I would have boys but nope God saw fit for me to be a girl mom. I knew after my last girl I was done, no more babies for me. Imagine my surprise when He told me has three boys, like what, no way….
This was just another sign, he wanted girls and I wanted boys (talk about Morden day Brady Bunch)
Now it wasn’t perfect, we did have arguments but what I noticed was that it wasn’t the arguments I was used to, we really found a way to have disagreements without it getting ugly (we are not perfect and we’ve had our blowouts) but we was able to communicate our feelings to each other while giving each grace and that meant a lot.
A man has to add value to my life, never embarrass me, and learn to love me the way I desire to be loved. I've never had to question his intentions, so when he proposed a year after we met the answer was yes. My Husband loves me so much, the kind of love you don’t even realize could exist from a person you didn’t birth or share blood with. Everyday I see gratitude in his eyes, he thanks God for me everyday. This man absolutely love me. Im so grateful to experience this kind of love.
Ladies, date men with intentions, not just your intentions, but his intentions. Don’t ask him what his intentions are, let him speak and he will reveal them to you. Pay attention to how he communicate with you and how often. A men is never to busy for something he really wants. Don't give second chances when someone disrespects your boundaries, learn to walk away and be ok with being alone. Fall in love with yourself, because you are able to fall in love with yourself, he will be able to as well.
Love you Goddess, until next time.